Romantic relationships fuse together two different people with different backgrounds and philosophies who love each other. You loved her imperfections. She loved how you did things differently. But, apart from love, there are many in-betweens which are required for a happily ever after. You need to constantly work on and revive your relationship.
WedAbout, India’s leading wedding app brings to you 6 tips for a happily ever after a relationship which will stand the test of time.
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“No Expectations, No Disappointments’’. Yes, it’s as simple as that. You do not need to depend on someone to make you happy. you should do things for you and to buy you stuff. Keep your partner free from expectations and judgement. As per studies, couples with low expectations are happier than those with high expectations.
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Hug, cuddle, kiss, flirt or have sex. Physical intimacy releases good hormones which makes your bond stronger and relationship happy. A damn good sex is directly proportional to good mood and relationship. Get passionate or just hold hands while looking into each other’s eyes to strengthen your bond .
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Communication is an important ingredient for a happy relationship recipe. Take out some time from the busy work schedules. Discuss household stuff, parenting or even national events. If you had a fight, instead of getting angry and venting out, talk it out. Keeping secrets is another ‘’NO’’ in any relationship. Be open to each other about everything.
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Respecting your spouse and his/her ideas, beliefs and interests. It is the golden rule of any successful relationship. Remember that you have loved your partner with all the flaws and imperfections. “Marriage isn’t a lovey-dovey thing, y’know, for 80 years. You learn to accept one another’s way of life.” – says Ann Betar, who has been married to John Betar for 84 years. John Betar says ‘’Respect each other’’ (as sourced from family share). It is also important to hold on to your own individuality rather than trying to be what others want you to be.
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Surprise your spouse rather than waiting for a miracle surprise to happen. Escape the boring routine and ignite your brains and body with romance. Plan a surprise day trip, any adventure activity, a dance class or a date night for your spouse to keep the sparks flying. Celebrate small pleasures of life by gifting cards. Just keep a love note besides the pillow to keep your relationship high on life.
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Appreciate your partner for the person he/she is. For the love, they give you and for the things they do for you. Say “Thank You’’ even if your wife cooks for you. This will make her feel on top of the world. Tell him how good he is looking in that white shirt and watch him blush.
Now that you have a few secrets for a long-lasting relationships, tailor your strategy now and keep loving each other.
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